Therapy Resource Guide
Thank you for reaching out to me. Unfortunately, I don't have availability to take on new clients at this time.
Even though we aren’t able to work together in the therapy office, you are deserving of care and healing. I have put together this referrals and resources guide to help you find a therapist that is a good fit for you. Click on the links below to be directed to my suggestions for finding the support you need.
THERAPIST DIRECTORIES
The majority of listed therapists will have a therapy office where they meet clients. Being in the therapy office can help you feel safe, connected, and give you a little distance from the stresses in your life. However, since the pandemic, most therapists are now also able to offer virtual therapy for folks located within their state/province.
BETTER HELP*
an online portal for live web-based counseling services, including text communication and phone sessions with your counselor.
*As a BetterHelp affiliate, I may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase through this link
PSYCHOLOGY TODAY
a comprehensive directory of therapists, psychiatrists, and treatment facilities near you
NATIONAL QUEER AND TRANS THERAPISTS OF COLOR NETWORK
a healing justice organization committed to transforming mental health for queer and trans people of color
INCLUSIVE THERAPISTS
a mental health justice movement pursuing equity and liberation through advocacy and activism
THE AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF SEXUALITY EDUCATORS, COUNSELORS, AND THERAPISTS
a not-for-profit, interdisciplinary professional organization recognized as the guardian of professional standards in sexual health
THERAPY FOR BLACK GIRLS
an online space dedicated to encouraging the mental wellness of Black women and girls
TALKSPACE
a text-based platform to connect with licensed therapists and psychiatrists
ABOUT INSURANCE
Are you wanting to pay through your insurance?
Insurance is not the most straightforward system to navigate. Let me try to offer a little support.
First, not all providers accept insurance.
In fact, many therapists operate outside of insurance panels because it can be hard to get their fees reimbursed in a timely way, there are some limitations to client confidentiality, and registration can also be difficult.
Insurance can be an access barrier to folks who cannot afford therapy without it.
You have the right to inquire whether a therapist accepts insurance up front.
If you are hoping to use your insurance for therapy, one way to search for a therapist is to reach out to your insurance provider (online or using the number on the back of your insurance card) and request a list of "in-network providers of psychotherapy or counseling services". Most insurance companies can provide you a list of folks who are registered to accept and bill to your insurance, although you may have a co-pay. Also ask about your out-of-network benefits, as you might be able to get reimbursed for therapy with folks who don't accept your insurance.
Terminology
Therapists covered fully or partially by your insurance network (“in-network”) allow you to bill your session directly to your insurer, and if you have met your out-of-pocket deductible, your session fee will be your co-pay.
Therapists outside of your network may not be covered at all by your insurance (“out of network”). In some cases, your insurer may allow you to submit your payment records for some degree of reimbursement.
Other Considerations
Please note that couples therapy and sex therapy are not always covered by American insurance plans. Online therapy platforms like BetterHelp* and Talkspace are typically more affordable than other therapy modalities, but are less likely to be covered by insurance plans.
*As a BetterHelp affiliate, I may receive compensation from BetterHelp if you purchase through this link.
WELLNESS APPS
If you are looking for support outside of the therapy office, consider apps that don’t encourage you to scroll mindlessly, flood you with ads or bad news, or invite you to compare yourself to strangers on the internet.
Here are some of my favourites:
FELT
Mine’d is a digital platform with human pathos. Whether you’re just starting your journey or it’s already underway, Mine’d connects you with top emotional wellness experts and community through daily live and on-demand classes.
HEADSPACE
Headspace has one mission: to improve the health and happiness of the world. And with millions of users in more than 190 countries, we’re well on our way. Headquartered in Santa Monica, California, we also have offices in San Francisco and London.
DIPSEA
Sexy audio stories that spark your imagination and get you in the mood. Feeling turned on is more than a wind up to sex. It’s a way to feel more alive, understand yourself, unlock confidence, and enhance intimacy. Dipsea empowers you to tap into those feelings whenever you damn well please!
CALM
Calm’s mission is to make the world happier and healthier. Calm creates unique audio content that strengthens mental fitness and tackles some of the biggest mental health challenges of today: stress, anxiety, insomnia and depression.
BREATHWRK
Breathwrk is a simple yet powerful way to alleviate stress and anxiety, fall asleep faster, energize yourself, or improve endurance. Learn and feel the power of breathing with guided exercises that are backed by science and research.